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I’m scared to invest in my wife despite me watching her struggling so much and I have resources to make things better and easier for her. I’m talking never having to labor again or suffer but I ain’t doing anything about it bro

Two years ago, I got married. During an altercation at our family house, my younger brother slapped my wife. Everyone blamed my wife and said it served her right, my mom, my sisters. My dad looked at me and just shook his head. I reprimanded my wife, my family hailed me – called me a (more…)

The break up was loud and crazy, even made it to social media, and now we’re texting again. I know it’s not love, it’s lust and and intense one. I know I’m stuck in his head. Every moment was (more…)

Why do they chase me and then change after I started liking them back. We saw 5 times and had something twice. Then he started giving excuses acting busy, stopped reaching out and barely talk to me. It was painful so I sabotaged his business and he has no idea I’m the one behind it. I feel bad but it is what it is. He should have left me alone! I was on my own! Abeg

Lesson learned (can’t handle rejection 2)

I know I have abandonment issues because I lost my dad suddenly and he was my everything, so I try not to get myself attached and try to delay stuff as much as I can but he just had to have his way. He didn’t force me but he was so over me and I just let him, then the second time I initiated it and then I started developing serious feelings for him. Why did he just cut me off and try to ghost me randomly even though we were still cool like 2 days after we saw, I didn’t do anything to him! And then I begged him for almost 2 weeks after that to just tell me why he wouldn’t talk to me, I needed closure badly and he just kept treating me like shit. Well I feel bad I sabotaged his business but he can never know it’s me! It’s never ok to play with someone and cut them off randomly, some of us have serious attachment issues and breakups can lead us to the hospital. The least you can do is give closure not start acting like a bitch. I practically begged him to just tell me what went wrong, who knows. Maybe that would have helped me to move on, he’s not the first person I’ll be with but the first person that actually made me try to punish someone for leaving me. He made this villain

Is this normal that whenever someone mentions I should go learn a trade/skills I feel like crying 😭 💔. I wasn’t built for it, mind you I literally grew up in the market, both my parents sell in the market but I can’t do business. I learnt baking during my IT 2020, I learnt (more…)

My brother is doing no sex till marriage with his girl, me i’m not in support sha. If you’re not ready to get mature as quickly as possible, just stay single. They’re both church people, but all this my (more…)

I’m so tired of looking for a job, turning 30 in a few days and nothing to show for it. Everyone in my family treats me some kind of way because I’ve not been able to get a job 7 years after leaving school. So tired.

I have a thing for a relative, dad’s cousin. I’m 21, he’s 22. Feeling is mutual. Nothing has happened yet but the attraction is there, strong and feels like (more…)

So this younger guy approached me and we exchanged contacts, got talking, he told me he was 23, turning 24 in few months. He seemed quite matured and chill, we got sexually involved and I’m finding (more…)

I feel used. Did he really love her or was I just a fantasy fulfilled. My homeboy let me have sex with his babe. He just mentioned it casually and she agreed. It was fun because she was sweet (more…)

My husband eats my snacks. I like to buy snacks and keep so I can munch on before heading to work early in the morning or late at night when I don’t wanna eat something heavy. He complains I like buying (more…)

I have a friend who I consider my best friend. She has always been cool with me and I go all out for her but recently, I found out that she mirrors me, tries to get words out of me and then I realize she (more…)

I lived with my ex for 3 years while we were dating, when the beating was too much, I ran away after I almost jumped off his balcony as an attempt to run away from him. The issue now is, my properties (more…)

7/8years relationship, two years into the relationship this “just friend” became the reason he hit me for the first time (he gave me his phone to use as a mirror to check my new hair and her message notification popped then i told him and he started dragging the phone from me because i jokingly said i wanted to check). After that day she still became the reason i was ridiculed. After insulting her and all the quarrels (more…)