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House hunting in Lagos is truly frustrating. I have been hunting for a while now, yet no progress. I really need my space as soon as possible. God please help me

I’ve always loved being a cuck, what that means is that I’ve always loved watching my wife get fucked so good by a bigger dick, I mean a very fat dick, because it’s one of my fantasies and that even makes (more…)

This boy came to see me last night, so I mentioned oh you remember I told you the other time let’s get tested for STI’s and co. He said yes (😂which one you get) then I said well I did mine and I’m (more…)

I come from a family that doesn’t care about me and have worked since age 14. I moved to Lagos in 2018 as a maid to fund my education. Met a guy, whom I wouldn’t ordinarily date because of his lifestyle, but I had no option as there (more…)

Linked up with my on & off talking stage for the first time since we started talking. He did it all, everything we talked about, he reminded me everything I said I wanted him to do while doing it. Looked me in the eyes while telling me (more…)

I have been involved with this married man for a month now and the total money he has given me is #400k aside the outings here and there. I feel it’s not enough. Or am I just greedy

My boyfriend and I were having an argument because he didn’t call when he said he was going to call, then he brought up something that when we were on a call he said I love you but I didn’t say it back that if it was me I wouldn’t be (more…)

I am in my mid 30s and unmarried despite being a good girl. Now I wish I am a bad girl because these days you see people saying a lady who is single at the age of 30+ must have been a girl without good character and all. It pains me (more…)

My boyfriend is a drunk and I’ve tried everything I can to help him but he’s not responding, mainly because his mother thinks a male child can do no wrong so they blame his addiction on spiritual problems (his late dad’s family). He makes good money but he spends it all on alcohol or (more…)

I’m 26 going to 27, I will be done with NYSC this month and I literally have nothing to do after, I know how to sew but no resources. I wish I had done a lot of things differently, I spent so much time thinking about life after school long (more…)

This is the second time in a row that i’m hurting a man that truly loves me. First, my ex and now this one again for same reasons. I need help

I miss my BFF, We had a little misunderstanding and she stopped communicating, even when I call she responds very cold and gives monosyllabic replies. I tried reaching out like 3 times (more…)

I’m 31 years old. When I was about 5-8 years old, I was repeatedly raped by a male neighbour living opposite my compound, and also by the people I call family. As a child I couldn’t confide in anyone because there was no peace at home then and (more…)

My principle is that I will never hit a woman or force sex for any reason, even with any girl i’m dating or my wife. During a past argument where I was at fault, my ex slapped me repeatedly while crying; I didn’t retaliate, i would hurt her (more…)