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Roomate palava

I live in a room self contain and recently got a roomate. Oh goshh now I remember why i moved into my own space in the first place. Nobody talks about how hard it is living with someone especially someone you’re not familiar with. You want to be careful with everything you do or (more…)

Foodie

I like to chop life a little too much 🤧 any money that enters my account the first thing I’m thinking is how to order a very good plate of party jollof rice and turkey or catfish pepper soup or semo and this nice soup with assorted goatmeat they (more…)

Evil friend

My friend is a jealous witch, firstly she was telling to cut my hair so I stop oppressing her making my hair do. Now this girl is wishing I’d have a baby and be a single mum like her. No be witch be that. Talk about children are blessings, even when I’ve repeatedly told her I’m not (more…)

Outside

I go look outside oh. I really like my boyfriend and we’ve been together for 3 months but he doesn’t give me money or gifts. I never ask because you shouldn’t be entitled to anyone’s income but I at least deserve a gift or two there. I see girls who don’t even look as good as I do (more…)

Sos!

My Boyfriend is hot! Way hotter than me, and he is younger, I think say I get healthy self esteem until I got with this guy, low self esteem wan kpai me. Great Guy, should I leave a good Guy because of my insecurities

Wahala

A few years ago I Japa and started doing well for myself, now I wan settle down and started talking to this girl from 9ja, I knew her in university and she is my tribe, the thing is she only wants me to come and marry, ASAP no interest in my life my job or nothing, when I try to teach her (more…)