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How do I manage #150k for 4 days before I get my salary. This country stresses me out.

I’m in a confused state, I’ve been seeing this guy for the past 3 years, but I was friends with his brother before meeting him. His brother and I started talking again and going on dates and we shared a (more…)

I started going jogging around my area in Abuja since January, and all has been going well until April when I met Mr D on the jogging ground, he approached me and we had a lil chat and exchanged numbers. We started going out on dates and for (more…)

My kindness has been taken for weakness, people are so cruel and selfish. I should have moved on since, I shouldn’t have stayed. I saw the signs, I knew (more…)

The person I’m in a so called talking stage with didn’t wish me happy birthday after I posted it on my status for more than seven hours and telling him prior to the day; he didn’t even ask which day it was. He’s a nice guy but good thing (more…)

It started with a Tinder match. I was instantly drawn to him. We moved our conversations to WhatsApp, where he told me he liked me because we shared the same energy. I thought it was too early for such declarations, but I couldn’t deny that I was already developing feelings for him. From the beginning, there were signs (more…)

I met this guy a month ago, tell me why he was ticking all my boxes and making me laugh like a fool only for to find out he has a babe. He is now making (more…)

Today is Sunday, and I feel like shit. I’ve finally lost it all, got evicted yesterday, exam is in couples weeks from now my final semester and I’ve not read a thing this semester. Where would I stay. I’ve got 0.00 balance. Where do I go from (more…)

Reflecting on my dating life. I was just out here dating people that hate me and anything. No spec, no Standard, nothing nothing, people that don’t even have a job just past glory. The one’s that (more…)

My brother wife’s is very distance from my mother and my mother is crashing out. My mother never wanted my brother to marry her, she went far to even go to the (more…)

She always say that I have pride, ego and feel like no one is like me that’s why I’m still like this but the truth is I have a very lowself esteem. I feel ugly and awkward, nobody has ever chosen (more…)

Life has felt a little paused lately. I’m a 24-year-old graduate waiting for NYSC. I live in Surulere with my mum, have very few friends around, and most days it’s just me, my thoughts, and whatever keeps me busy. No relationship. No talking stage. Not because I don’t want one, life has just (more…)

There’s this lady I met at the gym, very beautiful and has a nice body. We started talking and got really close, she was coming to my place and we were having fun. 3 months into the relationship she told me she had kids, not one but 3. I wanted to leave that I can’t date a woman with kids, she kept pleading that she really loves me (more…)

I’ve been here and there cussing men each time I see a post about pregnancy, maybe he doesn’t want the baby or he’s (more…)