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2 years long distance and I’ve always been the bigger person after arguments. Recent argument in December after I expressed something that hurt me you called me names selfish and self centered. Told you I don’t feel emotional safe with you, you said maybe someone else by my (more…)

I feel my babe isn’t “that caring girl”. This is someone that when she has even a slight complaint, i’ll take her to the hospital and spend hours seeing the doctor. I remember taking her around 2am when she was holding (more…)

There’s a new guy I’m seeing, he claims to love me and has shown it, he even got me a gift for Val and has been sending me money every week since we met 4 weeks ago. The way he eats my 🐱 is beyond this world, he asks me to twerk on his face and (more…)

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. 2 years long distance which we still are. Whenever there’s an argument or problem I always was the bigger person wanting to talk things out even (more…)

I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m the most unluckiest (if that’s a word) girl in this world. At 25, I can’t afford a house to live in so I stay with my boyfriend that goes out every night and gets drunk. I managed to do relocation to (more…)

Everyone says I’m proud but deep down I’m the nicest guy around, girls would be having crush on me but won’t say anything to me but they’ll be telling their friends I’m too proud. What did I do to deserve this. I’ve even tried dating and yet she’s (more…)

My 4year relationship ended. How do I feel, sad but we move. I kept myself from December till now thinking okay we would reconcile as usual but knowing (more…)

I don’t know how to start this but I’m tired. Finished school, done serving and no job yet. Been to various interviews but they all keep saying no experience. Na person go sha employ me for me to have (more…)

I just got admission to study abroad. I’m happy and at the same time I’m feeling not too excited about it as per the school fees choke because where I wan see (more…)

Over the years, I’ve been so unlucky with love. It’s even worse because not only have this guys done be so bad but they’ve hooked up and liked my friends, sometimes my friends don’t know I was with the (more…)

I’m not very lucky sha that’s what i think. In the last one month i won #500k with 700 Naira same day i staked #2000 on another game, imagine it was on (more…)

I never really said this out loud before, but I have a kink that revolves around being degraded and humiliated by a woman. It’s not about self-hate or thinking I’m worthless. It’s more about surrender. There’s something deeply intense about giving up (more…)

I have this neighbour whom I really want to go down with. He hasn’t given me the light of day sha, but as a girl who knows what she wants, I keep trying. I saw his girlfriend for the first time (more…)

Something isn’t adding up, but I can’t just figure it out. It seems like I live in circles. No relationship, no job, no money, lonely and still figuring out (more…)