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My situationship/sneaky link was out of the country and just came back to the country with his partner (they are not married yet) like women can be foolish! You left the US to come and start your life with Adam 🤣! Anyways I have tried (more…)

“You should be in a relationship, you don’t deserve to be single”. Coming from a man I thought I was going to marry. Lol

A random contact just posted my friend’s man to congratulate him, I replied the status congratulated and complimented him on her post, and also asked if he (more…)

I’ve always known I don’t have the gift of people. It’s all my fault, people want to associate with me but I never have the capacity for people. I have tons of followers and no friends. It’s becoming a problem, I used to think when (more…)

Lost my job and mehn, I don’t know where to start from. I’m exhausted, ashamed and a failure. How will I survive in this economy. I fit do yahoo or join cult. 💔

I’ve been celibate for over a year now and I didn’t even know it was possible. Lost sexual attraction to my ex fiancé last year and we agreed to go celibate. Six months in I realized I really don’t want (more…)

Do you men even know how much of a turn off it is to ask a girl for pictures. You just met a guy and the first thing he asks is “can you send some of your pictures” Hell no! We just met in person and (more…)

I’m 28, slim, petite and flat-chested, with no curves. I don’t feel feminine. I’ve tried affirmations, self-love, and reminding myself that everyone is built (more…)

Met a fine stranger on holiday and somehow, we went from random meeting to serious chemistry real quick 😂. There was flirting, a sweet kiss, plenty “I miss you” and enough butterflies to disgrace me. Then distance entered the chat and (more…)

I earn #120k per month. My guy earns #500k per month, he had his birthday in July and I gave him #50k. My birthday was sept 1st and he gave me #100k but I want more because I have invested a lot in terms of gifting, will it be fair to request for monthly allowance. If I earned more, I will definitely give more but he waits for me to ask him before he gives most times and I don’t know how to. I’m struggling to pay rent; my rent is #850k. Oh he doesn’t pay rent or have any core responsibility.

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My rent was not originally #850k, it has been #500k it was recently increased. I have spent on my man, I buy him things occasionally, I’ve taken him out to dinner dates, fueled his car on different occasions. I only asked that question because I feel like he can do more. I was earning about #200k but nysc ended and my salary wasn’t increased. I have been very grateful for everything he has done.

This man I’m in a talking stage with that I like so much told me he’d love his kids more than his wife, that the love you have for your kids is different from (more…)

My best friend is always reading my chat with my boyfriend then act like she dreamt about whatever it is she saw in our chat. I never believed her right from the first time because the explanation was too (more…)

Lagos agent made me cry today. I’ve been house hunting for 6months with no luck finding something within my budget and preferred area. Yesterday, I finally found a place I liked and scheduled an (more…)

A guy has been wooing me for a while now but I am not really interested in him. He invited me out and I met his friend. I secretly found him attractive but I kept my cool because I was with someone. Fast forward to later, the second guy (my crush) asked for my contact from the (more…)