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Good girl no dey pay oooo. All of the girls that used to be bad girls in my set then are now all doing well, having their businesses, relocated and all, while good girl still dey hustle for #2k (more…)
Had a very long phone call with my ex. He is married with kids and I am married with kids. He just kept talking about rewinding time and marrying me instead. How his wife doesn’t react to his touch like I did and etc. In truth I shouldn’t have had that conversation but I just enjoyed (more…)
Just discovered that I was actually a bad girlfriend to my ex. I cheated 3 times. Yeah we were going through a rough patch but we didn’t break up. Common! 3 different guys. And I’ve been deceiving myself (more…)
I’ve been chasing this girl for over 2 years and we’re yet to start dating, she still takes forever to reply me 😂. Since the first time i asked her out i have dated 2 and half girls and the half is 2 😂 and i am single back and i still think she’s the one, i have only managed to take (more…)
My man got a very big contract we have been praying and hoping for it to come last year, I even did the more praying and fasting, like i prayed so hard for it. This guy finally got the contract (more…)
Not here to sound tribalistic, I recently relocated abroad and every girl both black and white wants Igbo man. What did this Igbo people put in them I asked one (more…)
Tired of the bad PR marriage gets. 😂 Girls, good men exist. Listen to what they actually say, watch their actions, and stop interpreting everything through assumptions. Also don’t think about changing (more…)
I’m scared of women and their traumas, this is the reason i am scared of women my age 25/26/27, they usually have way more dating experience than us and they have experienced all manner of guys and have a lot of second hand experience/traumas. And all these traumas shape how (more…)
Just lost my mum, she’s been our only surviving parent since inception, we are just 3. When I heard that statement “she’s dead”…it was like something left my body. I haven’t been able to mourn her (more…)
I understand his words never change, he is God but something’s in the Bible doesn’t sit well with me. As we are forced to evolve with the world as it goes on can we make some changes too in the Bible written by men
I sent food to my boyfriend, he acknowledged the food but later texted me to say the meat was bad, I told him you could’ve said it in a nice way instead of just texting me to say “the meat was bad” why are you giving a review (more…)
I’m tired of getting attached to the wrong people. How do I stop it. I genuinely want to be like the girls who can be wicked to men because it seems men prefer wicked ladies. But me too I want to (more…)
My elder brother is so stupid. He’s incredibly disrespectful and very lazy. Doesn’t work just lazes about with foolish boys. He’s also very spoilt because he’s the only son, my mom gives him (more…)
I’m 5’0, my boyfriend is 6’7, we tried having sex for the first time but he doesn’t fit, he’s too big so we decided to do other things instead. Just like his dick his nose is very big, he went down on me (more…)
