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Boy Mom

My mom is such a boy mom. The funny thing is, she has just one son and three daughters. For years, I kept saying she treated my elder brother differently, but somehow I was always the “stubborn” or “controversial” one for pointing it out. Fast forward to now: I graduated, completed my service, and got a job. My younger sister just finished school and is (more…)

Sigh! 😞

One of the many reasons I hate my father is that he gave me anxiety that I can’t seem to get rid of, and it worsens when I’m around him. He does everything by force, he can never calm down for anything, he’s always in a hurry and it’s almost always never necessary. There could be an outing scheduled for 4pm and by 1pm he’ll say he (more…)

First time

I’ve been through hell and back with men. My ex he literally discarded me like trash and I prayed to God to give me a good man, my soulmate so that I can be happy for once. Shortly after, the demon that prayer sent my way. Haha. He has cheated on me and I’ve caught him so many times that at (more…)

Omo na him sabi

Started dating this guy about 7–8 months ago. Fine boy, no doubt but this man can turn the tiniest joke into World War III. I once called him “delulu” while we were both joking, and you’d think I’d committed a federal crime. The funny part is He says way harsher things to me, but the (more…)

Sisterzilla

My dad wants me to reconcile with my elder sister who said ill things about me to a potential suitors, made a screen record of my conversations with her and forwarded it to him, sent my voice notes where I was saying things about him to her, tried to sabotage the whole thing by telling him I dropped out of school the first (more…)