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Wahala

A few years ago I Japa and started doing well for myself, now I wan settle down and started talking to this girl from 9ja, I knew her in university and she is my tribe, the thing is she only wants me to come and marry, ASAP no interest in my life my job or nothing, when I try to teach her (more…)

Living my life

My mom still thinks I’ve broken up with my boyfriend. We made up. She started antagonising him when she saw his earrings. Mind you, I have 2 piercings. She tries to control my life, friendship & relationship included. I’m low contact so she holds on to any info I share. She yelled at me to break up with him (more…)

Why me

I hate the fact that I have to work so hard to afford basic stuff, food, toiletries and phone bill, nothing extra. I can’t even afford rent so I stay with my parents. I’m grateful I have a job though. I hate the fact that I got sick and I can’t go (more…)