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I don’t know how to start this but I’m tired. Finished school, done serving and no job yet. Been to various interviews but they all keep saying no experience. Na person go sha employ me for me to have (more…)

I just got admission to study abroad. I’m happy and at the same time I’m feeling not too excited about it as per the school fees choke because where I wan see (more…)

Over the years, I’ve been so unlucky with love. It’s even worse because not only have this guys done be so bad but they’ve hooked up and liked my friends, sometimes my friends don’t know I was with the (more…)

I’m not very lucky sha that’s what i think. In the last one month i won #500k with 700 Naira same day i staked #2000 on another game, imagine it was on (more…)

I never really said this out loud before, but I have a kink that revolves around being degraded and humiliated by a woman. It’s not about self-hate or thinking I’m worthless. It’s more about surrender. There’s something deeply intense about giving up (more…)

I have this neighbour whom I really want to go down with. He hasn’t given me the light of day sha, but as a girl who knows what she wants, I keep trying. I saw his girlfriend for the first time (more…)

Something isn’t adding up, but I can’t just figure it out. It seems like I live in circles. No relationship, no job, no money, lonely and still figuring out (more…)

I want to be bigger than this, but I don’t know what steps to take. I don’t want to follow my sisters who went to school, got married, are giving birth and (more…)

We are in an unofficial relationship because he’s in London and I’m in Lagos. He asked me out and said he’d ask me again when he comes to Lagos so I took him (more…)

So my boyfriend, opened up to me that he’d like to get married to a white woman so that he can get his citizenship faster. He has tried to reassure me that he’s got me and all that, he even proposed (more…)

My guy toasted this girl weeks ago if not a month sef, she didn’t say yes immediately and my guy was already concluding that it wouldn’t work but 2 days to val (more…)

This girl has been taking me for granted. She knows what I want because I didn’t hide my intentions, but after months together, sex hasn’t happened. I’ve spent like we’re dating, yet she only comes (more…)

You don’t post me at all, suddenly you turn celebrity wey dey date mystery man. It’s vals day and you’re asking for gift. Come and take.

My boyfriend and I have been doing long distance for over two years now. We usually have arguments, sometimes I’m at the wrong and the other times it’s miscommunication from both ends. When we argue he always goes silent for days even weeks. Me being as I am I don’t like conflict (or so I thought) I would always reach out first (more…)