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I cant enjoy sex 😩

I cant just enjoy sex like every other lady would. It’s either it hurts badly (i’m not a virgin) or i begin to itch afterwards (i dont have any infection whatsoever). I don’t know if it’s that i’m allegic to sex or what. It’s been like that since day one that i started having sex. It only gets kinda better when I’m ovulating (more…)

Everything!

Honestly, the older generation had it better, infact they had it really really good. Marriages, relationships, economy, better pay and opportunities, education etc. They did honestly and we ain’t talking about it this much. Imagine just talking to a woman to go out on dates and letting things go slow rather we here getting (more…)

5 years

We have always planned to get married early, have been saving towards that, he is 29 and I am 28. Now he is planning everything, his apartment renovation, buying a new car, getting more lands and none of the plans includes us getting married. I finally asked and his reply is (more…)

Roomate palava

I live in a room self contain and recently got a roomate. Oh goshh now I remember why i moved into my own space in the first place. Nobody talks about how hard it is living with someone especially someone you’re not familiar with. You want to be careful with everything you do or (more…)

Foodie

I like to chop life a little too much 🤧 any money that enters my account the first thing I’m thinking is how to order a very good plate of party jollof rice and turkey or catfish pepper soup or semo and this nice soup with assorted goatmeat they (more…)