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He doesn’t like to admit it but my dad prefers to sponsor men abroad than women. I’m 24 years old and I’ve been begging him to sponsor my masters in Canada for 6 years now and he keeps telling me he (more…)

Genuinely speaking i am not trying to sound entitled but confused and I feel bad. My boyfriend is a giver, so am I, when one is broke the other steps up that’s how we do our thing. Recently, we’ve been having back to back misunderstandings so when (more…)

I saw my friend’s mum yesterday evening when she was going to market, she was looking old and worn out pushing her barrow of moi moi. Something broke in me, my friend is married now with two children and also struggling financially with an (more…)

Here I am, wide awake in the middle of the night, and all I can think about is him. Decided to look him up on X and what I found left me absolutely stunned. The fine, shy, soft-spoken gentleman I’d been (more…)

About 3 years ago I wrote here that i was pregnant and scared. The man responsible wasn’t willing to marry me then (was 23). A lot of people made me feel better in the comments, discouraged me from (more…)

I knew i was mentally screwed when the only way i could stop watching porn and masturbating was to also stop talking and having sex with women. I don’t know for how long but i need to stop

My mom was sick and I was on my way to see her. Half way through the journey, I was called and told she was gone. I couldn’t react. I froze while tears were running down my face. Getting home, since she was young, I didn’t want her to spend time (more…)

Some of their accusations are things they did far back 10, 13 years ago. I was in my first relationship at 24 and after it ended i felt like opening a folder on Google Drive and and dumping our chats in it, and i have been doing this, even though i (more…)

I was just talking to my mom about normal life stuff and how my long distance boyfriend (we were together before he had to move) has been emotionally distant, etc and how I think we might end the (more…)

I was squatting with a friend because I was transferred earlier this year to her city, she and her siblings go through my things and steal from me alot, money and valuables gone, I realised she goes through my phone, forwards my chat to (more…)

My mom is such a boy mom. The funny thing is, she has just one son and three daughters. For years, I kept saying she treated my elder brother differently, but somehow I was always the “stubborn” or “controversial” one for pointing it out. Fast forward to now: I graduated, completed my service, and got a job. My younger sister just finished school and is (more…)

One of the many reasons I hate my father is that he gave me anxiety that I can’t seem to get rid of, and it worsens when I’m around him. He does everything by force, he can never calm down for anything, he’s always in a hurry and it’s almost always never necessary. There could be an outing scheduled for 4pm and by 1pm he’ll say he (more…)

It gets to a point, I was the biggest bird ever, every time love. Small thing I have caught feelings from people I barely know up to two weeks, my mood will now depend on them. If it happens we are (more…)

I’ve been through hell and back with men. My ex he literally discarded me like trash and I prayed to God to give me a good man, my soulmate so that I can be happy for once. Shortly after, the demon that prayer sent my way. Haha. He has cheated on me and I’ve caught him so many times that at (more…)