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Asking

All of you that said I should ask my babe for money abeg genuinely, how do I do it? I’ve never asked a man for money before, they usually just give me but now I’m really struggling and I need money from this man. Nobody should shade me or be sarcastic I just really need tips

Marriage

My friend got married at a really young age, no financial stability, no job too. Before she got married I begged her to get something doing although we were both students and I was learning skills and managing a small business, I even put her on some but she always had something to complain about. Even helped her (more…)

Fat boyfriend

When I first met my boyfriend, I wasn’t really into fitness. Few months into our relationship, I got into fitness, I’ve lost weight and become more healthy. My boyfriend on the other hand has become bigger and with bigger and hard stomach. He’s not wanting to get fit at all and I’m losing (more…)

Unfair

One time I was sick and admitted I saw these cute couples, the guy was sick and the girlfriend was always there packing his shit and vomit. The guy was so sick he couldn’t do anything by himself. Fast forward to 2 years later, I met this same guy, he came up introduced himself, I was so happy to see him mainly because he’s so healthy now. We started talking then he told me (more…)