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Met this guy online and we clicked, we didn’t define it but we had things going on and he was sweet. Noticed he started withdrawing and he explained he lost his job and can’t be mushy. Decided to break things because I was the only one (more…)

I recently started dating a married man, he sold me emotions and I fell for it. I fell so hard for it, like I’m in love with him, only for him to tell me today that he has another person outside me and his wife. I feel so hurt.

I have a sexual relationship with my married boss, the thing now is I feel so jealous when other female colleagues are in his office alone with him. I feel they are having sex aswell because of (more…)

Funny how I would always pity and pray people who couldn’t feed now guess who has been eating dried garri oil and salt for four days straight now, me. Tough times don’t last right. I swear I work hard, but oh well

I flirted with this girl too much and we talked all day, till i became scared that what if she’s catching feeling or already thinks we are dating, and i don’t want love to enter our relationship. We have been close for a long time, and when (more…)

I’m a 25 years old lady, I’ve been dating this guy for 6 years now together for 6 years. Last year, I gave my life to Christ and since then till now there has been unending issues over sex. I told him we have to hold on sex till marriage since we are plan on doing that by December but he is finding it very hard to comply to celibacy. The issue for me is that when there’s intercourse I cannot pray no matter how hard I try, whenever I’m not with him I become very prayerful and discerning, but when I’m around him it’s not so, he says intimacy is very vital for him to stay emotionally connected. I agree with him but I told him I can only do that in marriage since it’s looking like a hindrance in my prayer life. We’ve had several fight around this and it is almost like the marriage we are planning for isn’t looking very promising. I’ve tried distancing, seeing each other outdoors, he doesn’t comply with any. We stay in the same city, so each time I come to see him he must talk and coerce me into having sex. What do I do at this point🫠

I envy people who have good mothers, my mother is the opposite and it breaks my heart anytime I think about it because tell me how can a mother be jealous of her own children especially the females that are just trying for themselves and (more…)

Last year September, I found out my boyfriend cheated on me and it broke me badly because I loved him, healed and moved on. Fast forward to this year, found out my new boyfriend is cheating on me (more…)

Good girl no dey pay oooo. All of the girls that used to be bad girls in my set then are now all doing well, having their businesses, relocated and all, while good girl still dey hustle for #2k (more…)

Had a very long phone call with my ex. He is married with kids and I am married with kids. He just kept talking about rewinding time and marrying me instead. How his wife doesn’t react to his touch like I did and etc. In truth I shouldn’t have had that conversation but I just enjoyed (more…)

Just discovered that I was actually a bad girlfriend to my ex. I cheated 3 times. Yeah we were going through a rough patch but we didn’t break up. Common! 3 different guys. And I’ve been deceiving myself (more…)

I’ve been chasing this girl for over 2 years and we’re yet to start dating, she still takes forever to reply me 😂. Since the first time i asked her out i have dated 2 and half girls and the half is 2 😂 and i am single back and i still think she’s the one, i have only managed to take (more…)

My man got a very big contract we have been praying and hoping for it to come last year, I even did the more praying and fasting, like i prayed so hard for it. This guy finally got the contract (more…)

Not here to sound tribalistic, I recently relocated abroad and every girl both black and white wants Igbo man. What did this Igbo people put in them I asked one (more…)