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Delulu

My ex had no problem with us fucking but she never cooked at my place even when she was with me for almost 2 weeks. She said if she cooked for me it will make me relaxed, but you know what makes me relaxed the most; The sex 😆. A relationship of almost a year if i don’t buy i do the cooking. We had sex almost every day except she’s on her period.

Outside child

I just found out my husband has a secret child and I don’t even know how to react. We’ve been married for 5 years now and never for once did my husband ever show a sign of cheating talk more having a child outside our marriage. My husband has 3 phones, he uses two for his business, the other one is his personal which we talk on. My mind just told me to look at the one he barely uses and I found out my husband has a child in Asaba meanwhile we live in Lagos lol. I don’t know how to process this situation, I haven’t comforted him yet because never have I imagined my husband will cheat on me and go as far as having a child outside because he loves, care and provides for me and the family. We even made love yesterday and all I could think of was this man has a 10 month old baby

Never again

Today I decided I’ll never lend my friend money again. Every time I do, I have to chase her before she pays me back. What annoys me most is she’ll even ask what she owes me for, as if she shouldn’t already know. There was a time I let it go because something tragic happened to her, but she never even acknowledged it.

Cafe but only milk

I am thinking of opening a breastfeeding cafe in Lagos (sin city) for women that like their breasts suckled in a non sexual way and men that like to do it too. I realized not all men like that whole “just suck till you fall asleep” kind of sucking; they feel it must always lead to sex. No! Just suck like a good baby boy, is that too much to ask for. Sorry na this man dey vex me; talk about “when I am not a 6month old” mtcheww