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I have been involved with this married man for a month now and the total money he has given me is #400k aside the outings here and there. I feel it’s not enough. Or am I just greedy
My boyfriend and I were having an argument because he didn’t call when he said he was going to call, then he brought up something that when we were on a call he said I love you but I didn’t say it back that if it was me I wouldn’t be (more…)
I am in my mid 30s and unmarried despite being a good girl. Now I wish I am a bad girl because these days you see people saying a lady who is single at the age of 30+ must have been a girl without good character and all. It pains me (more…)
My boyfriend is a drunk and I’ve tried everything I can to help him but he’s not responding, mainly because his mother thinks a male child can do no wrong so they blame his addiction on spiritual problems (his late dad’s family). He makes good money but he spends it all on alcohol or (more…)
I’m 26 going to 27, I will be done with NYSC this month and I literally have nothing to do after, I know how to sew but no resources. I wish I had done a lot of things differently, I spent so much time thinking about life after school long (more…)
This is the second time in a row that i’m hurting a man that truly loves me. First, my ex and now this one again for same reasons. I need help
I miss my BFF, We had a little misunderstanding and she stopped communicating, even when I call she responds very cold and gives monosyllabic replies. I tried reaching out like 3 times (more…)
I’m 31 years old. When I was about 5-8 years old, I was repeatedly raped by a male neighbour living opposite my compound, and also by the people I call family. As a child I couldn’t confide in anyone because there was no peace at home then and (more…)
My principle is that I will never hit a woman or force sex for any reason, even with any girl i’m dating or my wife. During a past argument where I was at fault, my ex slapped me repeatedly while crying; I didn’t retaliate, i would hurt her (more…)
Got to find out the married man I’m dating, his other sidechick is a lady with two children, like you are cheating on your wife with someone that has children as well. Telling me with the woman it’s (more…)
This guy literally followed my bike with his car for so long, trying to say hi. I didn’t even realize until I got to the gate of where I was going and saw him panting saying he’d been trying to (more…)
Hi family 👋 I will give birth to my baby in 2 weeks time and I’m so scared. I have a very tight vagina, I have tear and feel pain whenever I have intercourse. I’m wondering how I’m going to push out a baby (more…)
Omo I sinned today and it’s not worth it. Men please make una dey work out abeg and na person husband o his wife dey suffer walahi because what the hell! Nothing e (more…)
I just saw the controversial remark senate President Godswill alpabio made about suicide. 😭 I am depressed, I am at the office, this morning I was thinking of seamless way to take myself (more…)
