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No matter what you do in this life as a girl, don’t love a man that doesn’t love you. You’d keep hurting yourself emotionally and physically. This guy has never been there for me before. But i love him than anything. He even said to my (more…)

God abeg o

So we’ve been dating for 5 years now and he recently told .me he noticed I’ve not mistakenly been pregnant, this is someone we don’t see often and when we see he doesn’t nut inside me his pull out game is accurate and even if he’s unsure I will still take contraceptives just to be safe. After university I do travel to see him for two weeks and that’s like 2 times a year or sometimes we won’t see for 6 months, he said it’s even better to have been pregnant and aborted at least we will know we’re fertile than not mistakenly conceiving for years.

God abeg (2)

He said he hasn’t impregnated anyone before but his friends are always gisting about girls getting pregnant for them and he’s beginning to get worried about himself too because they have history of delay conception in his family and most of people from his family gave birth to just one child or even none. His mom struggled to give birth until she performed IVF multiple times, he said he could be the problem tho but deep down I know I’m okay. I might just dust my slippers and run because I can’t deal o and can’t let no man use me as an experiment after all he’s cheating so he should test his fertility on the girls he’s messing with

9-5

I just applied for a job and i passed all my assessments then went for an interview. I’m a bit scared of 9-5 jobs because i am a makeup artist and i love to work for myself not under someone. I just want to be able to enjoy soft life while I make (more…)

What if

I’m a girl and I have very weird relationships with girls. I’ve always been shy around girls and the ones that are my friends, I seem to get emotional with. Like jealous and all. With guys I’m more practical and free. I’ve made out with a girl some years back to see if (more…)