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Unreliable

I hate unreliable men so much! You’re a man the least you can do is actually do what you say. E just Dey do me like say make I konk this man. How can you promise somebody money and not come through. Efi

Questioning 🥹

I am 25years, ever since I’ve been having sex, I don’t cum or even enjoy it. Sometimes i don’t get hard that the girls do yab me and say I am a weakling or not man enough. I went to visit my friend at orchid estate and we smoked up, drank then I became tipsy and slept off, waking up I felt relieved but I noticed my dick cap was paining me, I don’t know sha, I brushed it off, then (more…)

Stuck

I have only had sex with a lesbian. I was abused for a long while growing up, but it’s still in me. I have been in relationships with guys but I still crave it. I think I want to try it again. When I opened up about my past to my ex, he wanted to (more…)

Miss her

I recently fell off with a friend and I was at fault to be honest. I let things I didn’t like pile up because I was scared I’d hurt her. Eventually, I got angry and blocked her over something very little that involved another friend of mine. I didn’t give her a chance to explain and (more…)

Salary

There is nothing I want more in this life than to earn something at the end of the month. I know it might sound funny but from the depth of my heart. I run a business as a student but you know business, you’ll never know the high or low days and (more…)