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I’m scared of women and their traumas, this is the reason i am scared of women my age 25/26/27, they usually have way more dating experience than us and they have experienced all manner of guys and have a lot of second hand experience/traumas. And all these traumas shape how (more…)

Just lost my mum, she’s been our only surviving parent since inception, we are just 3. When I heard that statement “she’s dead”…it was like something left my body. I haven’t been able to mourn her (more…)

I understand his words never change, he is God but something’s in the Bible doesn’t sit well with me. As we are forced to evolve with the world as it goes on can we make some changes too in the Bible written by men

I sent food to my boyfriend, he acknowledged the food but later texted me to say the meat was bad, I told him you could’ve said it in a nice way instead of just texting me to say “the meat was bad” why are you giving a review (more…)

I’m tired of getting attached to the wrong people. How do I stop it. I genuinely want to be like the girls who can be wicked to men because it seems men prefer wicked ladies. But me too I want to (more…)

My elder brother is so stupid. He’s incredibly disrespectful and very lazy. Doesn’t work just lazes about with foolish boys. He’s also very spoilt because he’s the only son, my mom gives him (more…)

I’m 5’0, my boyfriend is 6’7, we tried having sex for the first time but he doesn’t fit, he’s too big so we decided to do other things instead. Just like his dick his nose is very big, he went down on me (more…)

I used to have an ex who believed that masturbation didn’t count as a sin until one ejaculates. I remember once during a blowjob he warned me not to make him cum (more…)

Me and my man didn’t have sex for a few months, I told him I wasn’t ready and he respected me. We agreed that we weren’t going to and we would only just get to know ourselves and kiss with a bit romance he agreed but really I just wanted to abstain for a while. He never shows me the dick everytime I ask he refuses he (more…)

Dear heavenly being, One day I will be waking up right by your side since you have decided to not be there for me in a world I didn’t decide to come to myself. All my efforts have been in vain and I (more…)

They will micro manage you and then get angry when you stop completely. First, it’s my mum then this ex I could never cook as well as my mother personal preference. Instead of correcting just insults and curses until I stopped cooking (more…)

Realize that I hold on to resentment especially in relationships especially if the issue is not properly resolved or redone. For someone like me I’m learning that when such breach of trust (more…)

My sneaky link blocked me. I want a new one but the thing is yea I don’t know how to go about it. I don’t easily find people attractive unless they mentally stimulate me. Also i respect boundaries (more…)

Business owners/Employers always expecting you to be miserable just because you’re working for them. I’ve done everything I’m supposed to do on a normal day, no walk in client, nothing for me to do, you’re on vacation with your (more…)