Why do they chase me and then change after I started liking them back. We saw 5 times and had something twice. Then he started giving excuses acting busy, stopped reaching out and barely talk to me. It was painful so I sabotaged his business and he has no idea I’m the one behind it. I feel bad but it is what it is. He should have left me alone! I was on my own! Abeg

Lesson learned (can’t handle rejection 2)

I know I have abandonment issues because I lost my dad suddenly and he was my everything, so I try not to get myself attached and try to delay stuff as much as I can but he just had to have his way. He didn’t force me but he was so over me and I just let him, then the second time I initiated it and then I started developing serious feelings for him. Why did he just cut me off and try to ghost me randomly even though we were still cool like 2 days after we saw, I didn’t do anything to him! And then I begged him for almost 2 weeks after that to just tell me why he wouldn’t talk to me, I needed closure badly and he just kept treating me like shit. Well I feel bad I sabotaged his business but he can never know it’s me! It’s never ok to play with someone and cut them off randomly, some of us have serious attachment issues and breakups can lead us to the hospital. The least you can do is give closure not start acting like a bitch. I practically begged him to just tell me what went wrong, who knows. Maybe that would have helped me to move on, he’s not the first person I’ll be with but the first person that actually made me try to punish someone for leaving me. He made this villain