7/8years relationship, two years into the relationship this “just friend” became the reason he hit me for the first time (he gave me his phone to use as a mirror to check my new hair and her message notification popped then i told him and he started dragging the phone from me because i jokingly said i wanted to check). After that day she still became the reason i was ridiculed. After insulting her and all the quarrels he agreed to block her, and noticed he kept unblocking her quietly without texting her, 5 times he did and 5 times i blocked her with his phone quietly. This girl body shamed me one time and I’m glad I’m not where i used to be, she broke shamed him also when i texted her to insult her. I told him all she said and bro said “how am i even sure she really said it or you did just to get to me”. Chai i have suffered for this thing called love sha. Years later I’m still blocking while he secretly unblocks her. Last month, i noticed he unblocked her, so i blocked her, i came back to see him and noticed he unblocked again lol. I’m done with the madness circle, God forbid