Connotare

I don’t know if I’m sorry, if I unlocked something I didn’t know or it was just the vibe. My girlfriend’s brother has been receptive, nice and we hang out occasionally. Last week, we hung out at our usual spot and decided to head to my place and play games. My other friends went home. We gisted, smoked and we talked about girls and this banter about football and we started play fighting. I don’t know how we started making out. We stopped he ran, I ran. And we haven’t spoken since.

My boyfriend’s sister came to his house one day and was preaching to me in his presence that I was giving my body for free to a man that will never marry me. Made sense. So I broke up with him instantly. One week later his whole family are (more…)

As a pastor you saw a girl who has been sexually abused since she was young, she confided in you about how she’s hypersexual because of that and blamed it on a spirit in her and you nurtured those thoughts, mentored her for months and then (more…)

I met a guy online but we’ve met, he’s actually very caring. He does everything in his power to make me smile but the problem is that he’s not financially stable. It’s so obvious, although I don’t stress (more…)

I don’t know what is going on with me. On Sunday night, 21st June. I dreamt and saw myself in an earthquake. I was running down a staircase and buildings were crashing around me, was a (more…)

You never know how you will behave or react to something until it happens to you. I had always been a girly girl until I encountered one son of Adam. This guy has a serious gf! Silly me when I asked him and he told me I didn’t believe because he joked a lot. Not until the girl came to Nigeria. I tried cutting him off but he (more…)

I used all the money i had to pay for an apartment this week. I got a very good paying job via a friend but it required close proximity to the job location, so I quickly got a place and made (more…)

For the longest time I thought I needed time to think about what I really want for myself, to really Focus on me and make something for myself. Accomplished that, and now I’m ready to enter into the (more…)

I’m in a long distance relationship with different time zone, we both are Nigerian but different tribe. The problem there is that he doesn’t know when he will come back or maybe his parents will allow (more…)

The attention I get from men in this Lagos eh. Especially the married ones. And they have money. Someone got me hair from his trip abroad but won’t bring (more…)

There’s this guy I’ve been torn about breaking up with because he’s the most supportive and caring person I’ve been with, but I’m not physically attracted to him as much as I’d love to be attracted to my partner, plus sex with him is (more…)

In April, I needed some money urgently, and I reached out to one of my cousins to lend me some money. I told him the purpose and how urgent it is. He asked me to send my account details. After a few hours I didn’t see anything so I tried calling (more…)

My cousin is now friends with a lady that used to sleep with her man, it’s just so funny I see them in each other’s comments and all. Her husband and this lady used to work together and they had an (more…)

I honestly don’t know how I have been unable to gather friends that impact my life positively. A feminist who claims she hates men but her life revolves around them, a lazy bum who quit her job for over 3 years and has refused to apply for all (more…)