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In a no contact situation with this boy but sometimes he would text and I would read it smiling like a fool. Someone that broke my heart x100 why can’t I hate this guy, but I know distance heals and helps so I will maintain it

This guy who his mom is one of the top women in the country texted me, we spoke and he called on instagram only for me to notice he was masturbating using my face, I cautioned him and this still (more…)

Anytime I’m beside the ocean I feel so drawn to it, like a spirit is calling me. I feel it’s very peaceful inside there. I love water, there’s a part of me that feels peace within it. I dream about water all the time, thinking about water gives me (more…)

I am so pissed! My neighbour saw me coming back from the market and jokingly asked what I’m cooking, i answered riced and beans and he said oh don’t forget (more…)

My best friend and I planned to go clubbing, have a girls weekend, she said her boyfriend would be the designated driver just to be safe. We both got so (more…)

Met a guy at the club who said he was 28, We had a one-night stand, I was in charge and it felt off, so I checked his phone and found out he was 18. I’m 23, a female and I’ve never felt so (more…)

Is being a girl introvert such a crime. In 9ja, I happily lived alone, great job, bills paid, no drama, yet my neighbor (married man) literally quarrelled me to be “coming out”. Now I’ve relocated abroad, live in a shared apartment with (more…)

You know that saying “the side chick always know the main babe but not vice versa”, I think this might be me but he keeps saying he doesn’t have a (more…)

And when I wrote the other day that I felt like taking my life, my sister thought I was joking.
Drowning sounds awfully peaceful, slipping out of this world with so much peace, water just filling my (more…)

This girl was in a serious long-distance relationship when we started talking. She slept over twice, but nothing happened. I don’t put in so much effort trying to sleep with girls, i just try a little and stop even my relationships, i can (more…)

I think it should be illegal for two peaceful people to be in a relationship😒 My guy has been dating his girl close to 3years now, I’ve never seen any adult with so much peace like this people, they’ve (more…)

Met him in 2023, loved him so much and he loved me too. Found out he was cheating in the most embarrassing way ever, I became depressed but I still liked him so I forgave him(or so I thought). He changed, stopped cheating and now wants to settle (more…)

I want to move, I want to relocate from the East to either Abuja or Lagos but I don’t know which is best. I don’t have or know anyone in the both places. But please what would you advise is the best choice. Abuja or Lagos

My biggest insecurity while growing up is my hair, the fact that I don’t have it and the weak edges. Family members, school teachers, mates mock me for it, and expect me to take it as a joke, I was even nicknamed grandma in primary school. I was at work yesterday and I removed (more…)