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My boss hit me multiple times yesterday, I work in retail for a luxurious brand and my female boss thought it was ok to raise her hands on me. A rider took the wrong goods and I’m in charge of that (more…)

My man has been having emotional talks and conversations with his pastor’s daughter steady and I told him I wasn’t okay with it, he said it’s just friendship. This is the same pastor’s daughter that gives (more…)

I’m not going to lie, these days feels very hard. The last time a man loved me properly was 2015. 11 years later and nothing. All these men do to me is sleep with me and leave me. All my friends are married and some in serious (more…)

This X trend on parents ‘bully’ made me remember my mom. Although she didn’t exactly hit me just minor slaps and knocks but for the longest she called me ugly. She constantly told me that amongst (more…)

70% of my struggles used be (boy problems). The way I Dey catch feelings fast eeh you can easily tell my father isn’t in my life🥱😂. The moment I realised that pattern though things have been (more…)

I’ve been with a married man (his wife is white). Due to deportation issues, he hasn’t seen his wife and daughter in years. I know he still talks to them because (more…)

I’ve been seeing this guy few times in the space of one month. He’s kind, helps me with my career, and we’ve become intimate. The issue is that almost every time we hang out, I’m the one going to his (more…)

I got a new Job in May that puts me amongst top corporate guys, I decided to then use that to turn my life around, blocked and move away from all my sneaky links and babes who don’t add (more…)

So I saw that post about golden amu and I can relate like mad! Initially I thought it was dickmatization but omo it’s now looking like love o. That nigga is all I think about. I wanted it to be casual but now we’re saying I love you to each (more…)

Omo I’m really tired of guys always lusting after my body, no be say I he big yansh oh but like slim thick type of body and it’s been long I’ve met a genuine guy like honestly I’m tired, always (more…)

I asked my friend with benefits/sneaky link to pay for my round trip ticket to Kenya o. His response (ti o ba yo), later he laughed about it and said No! I didn’t mention it again to him. I got my ticket myself! This was a month ago. Fast forward to last night when we eventually (more…)

This guy I was seeing before has been cheating on his babe consistently, I will call her his fiancé because they’ve been together for more than 5 years. I didn’t know he was in a relationship when he kept begging me and reassuring me (more…)

I used to think people were exaggerating when they talked about being addicted to somebody but here I am, daydreaming and wet dreaming about this golden amu! Funny thing is he caught me being shady but (more…)

I and my ex ended some months ago because he said he couldn’t keep up anymore, he is an only child & he lost his dad few months before we ended and was going through some financially difficulties. He was a nice and kind partner when we dated, he was always there for me and didn’t give me reasons to doubt. We haven’t been contact in a month but somehow I feel lead to reach out to know how he is doing. I don’t want it to be that I didn’t check on him when he was going through a rough time. I miss him but I genuinely want to know how he is.

Check in 2

Well I’m not a bad person, before we ended the relationship he has been complaining about the finances and all but I didn’t even flinch because that isn’t the reason I fell in love with him. I tried my best to still be there for him, to still reach out even though I get a response in few days time. It was easy for me too, because the break up came as a shock too. I tried my best for us to work things out then when I couldn’t continue anymore I just told him I needed time and space. I’m currently facing a crisis too in my life but I didn’t let that hinder thing. Well I’ll reach out tho to still check in on him.

Continuation

I wonder why I keep forgetting to add that he was the one who ended things with me , he broke up with me even when i tried my best to be there fir him. I even went back to talk to him after a month about this break up. He refused and said he couldn’t. It was too much for me then so I just had to stay away. He broke with me and was trying to act all nice again after days of silence. This is the part i didn’t add in the check in Story. I’m not a bad person I tried my best to make things work out.