I’m a twin and my twin is a boy, when I got into the university I decided to learn how to cook since buying food became expensive, since that time this boy has been seeing me as his maid. He will wake as early as 8am and tell me he’s hungry and after eating sometimes he will drop his plate for me to wash in the kitchen and I always tell him I’m not your maid neither am i your wife that you should be pestering me. Today I told him any plate he doesn’t wash and drops in the kitchen, I will throw it away because I can’t be picking up after you in your twenties and whenever he doesn’t wash plate I don’t cook. He doesn’t do anything in the house not even to assist or pick up after himself. Please hope what I’m doing isn’t wicked. I just need advice on how to handle this guy so he can change, I’m really frustrated.