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My husband eats my snacks. I like to buy snacks and keep so I can munch on before heading to work early in the morning or late at night when I don’t wanna eat something heavy. He complains I like buying (more…)

I have a friend who I consider my best friend. She has always been cool with me and I go all out for her but recently, I found out that she mirrors me, tries to get words out of me and then I realize she (more…)

I lived with my ex for 3 years while we were dating, when the beating was too much, I ran away after I almost jumped off his balcony as an attempt to run away from him. The issue now is, my properties (more…)

7/8years relationship, two years into the relationship this “just friend” became the reason he hit me for the first time (he gave me his phone to use as a mirror to check my new hair and her message notification popped then i told him and he started dragging the phone from me because i jokingly said i wanted to check). After that day she still became the reason i was ridiculed. After insulting her and all the quarrels (more…)

I don’t know if I’m sorry, if I unlocked something I didn’t know or it was just the vibe. My girlfriend’s brother has been receptive, nice and we hang out occasionally. Last week, we hung out at our usual spot and decided to head to my place and play games. My other friends went home. We gisted, smoked and we talked about girls and this banter about football and we started play fighting. I don’t know how we started making out. We stopped he ran, I ran. And we haven’t spoken since.

My boyfriend’s sister came to his house one day and was preaching to me in his presence that I was giving my body for free to a man that will never marry me. Made sense. So I broke up with him instantly. One week later his whole family are (more…)

As a pastor you saw a girl who has been sexually abused since she was young, she confided in you about how she’s hypersexual because of that and blamed it on a spirit in her and you nurtured those thoughts, mentored her for months and then (more…)

I met a guy online but we’ve met, he’s actually very caring. He does everything in his power to make me smile but the problem is that he’s not financially stable. It’s so obvious, although I don’t stress (more…)

I don’t know what is going on with me. On Sunday night, 21st June. I dreamt and saw myself in an earthquake. I was running down a staircase and buildings were crashing around me, was a (more…)

You never know how you will behave or react to something until it happens to you. I had always been a girly girl until I encountered one son of Adam. This guy has a serious gf! Silly me when I asked him and he told me I didn’t believe because he joked a lot. Not until the girl came to Nigeria. I tried cutting him off but he (more…)

I used all the money i had to pay for an apartment this week. I got a very good paying job via a friend but it required close proximity to the job location, so I quickly (more…)

For the longest time I thought I needed time to think about what I really want for myself, to really Focus on me and make something for myself. Accomplished that, and now I’m ready to enter into the (more…)

I’m in a long distance relationship with different time zone, we both are Nigerian but different tribe. The problem there is that he doesn’t know when he will come back or maybe his parents will allow (more…)

The attention I get from men in this Lagos eh. Especially the married ones. And they have money. Someone got me hair from his trip abroad but won’t bring (more…)