You never know how you will behave or react to something until it happens to you. I had always been a girly girl until I encountered one son of Adam. This guy has a serious gf! Silly me when I asked him and he told me I didn’t believe because he joked a lot. Not until the girl came to Nigeria. I tried cutting him off but he won’t leave. What made the situation worse was a distant family member reaching out to me saying I met someone recently and he’s my future partner (he was the only person I had met that time) He has a woman it won’t work, my aunt told me it’s a lie and he wants to breakup with her. This fueled my talking to him again. Long story cut short I entered a situationship with him and now I regret it. No man will ever leave his woman to be with you, this I learnt the hard way. She’s relocating back to 9ja in 2 months time and they are getting married. While me I broke my celibacy of more than a year because I was dumb. He still wants to be friends but my heart can’t take it. Anyways such is life! We learn everyday.