I’ve been seeing this guy few times in the space of one month. He’s kind, helps me with my career, and we’ve become intimate. The issue is that almost every time we hang out, I’m the one going to his place. He buys food sometimes, but he rarely plans dates or asks to see me anywhere else. I’m thinking of stopping the visits to see if he’ll make any effort. Am I overthinking this, should I stop going to his place, He has talked about planning visits on several occasions but we haven’t gone and I don’t push.