An old staff came to visit our office. I wasn’t working at the organization when he was still there, so we’d never met before. The moment I saw him, I was drawn to him, he’s completely my type. My colleagues had nothing but wonderful things to say about him, and after checking out his LinkedIn profile, I was even more impressed by his achievements. I’ve made the first move in the past twice, and each experience turned out differently. Because of that, I’m scared to make the first move again. I also can’t help but feel a little insecure. He seems incredibly intelligent and focused, and I keep wondering if I’d be enough. I don’t really know how to explain it, but I feel so strongly drawn to him.