I don’t know how to open up to people, both family and friends. I got engaged last year and the engagement is at its breaking point because I don’t share anything with my fiancé. Anytime I try, I cringe up and become embarrassed. I’ve tried everything even going to therapy but nothing works. Not only do I hate opening up, I hate when people tell me things, especially when they’re going through difficult situations, because I don’t know how to comfort people, I’ll just sit there awkwardly. I love my own company, and I do not like talking to people, but I can tolerate him in my space because I’ve gotten used to him. How do I explain to this guy that I can’t be open and free with him like he wishes. He’s the first guy I’m dating and if he leaves he’ll be the last because I don’t see myself doing this again. Can’t believe I wasted my time doing this love thing.