I’ve been dating this guy. He’s in his late 40s and he always talks about marriage and running away with me. He is loving, caring and very well to do and gives me money monthly but a few days ago I found some lady under wear in his wardrobe and decided to comfort him about it. He said it belonged to an old ex of his and said he doesn’t want to destroy them because he feels like she will come back and ask for them and if he tells her he destroyed them she will think he used her underwear for rituals. I’m confused and don’t know what to think. He is also very secretive about his phone and doesn’t let me go through it. I have a hunch that he’s cheating but I like the frequent cash he gives me. He plans to get me a ring but deep down I don’t know if I would accept it.