Omor, marry well o unless your children will pay the price. Check the family well. I’m currently paying for the wrong choice of wife/mother my father married😭. I’m drained mentally, emotionally. I wonder how I went from a calm person to an aggressive person. Sometimes, I just sit alone and cry 😭😭😭. No school, even the handwork I can’t concentrate well. I hide a lot of tears behind my smiles, which are rare. Follow your first instinct, say no to gaslight. If gaslighting finishes, frustration automatically starts. Use your head. Most are looking for where to hide their bad characters 😭😭. MAN USE YOUR HEAD