My ex boyfriend ended our 2 years relationship last year, late last year we had a thing but wasn’t dating, there was a fight so we stopped talking. Now this this year he basically text me very month expressing feelings up to now I don’t pass a month without him texting me that he misses me. Ask to see me I ignored .He started dating someone else but still comes to express his feelings for me and even sexually reply my videos and talking dirty. I don’t even reciprocate the energy because he has a new babe. Last month he shared a wedding video, i told him what was this he said he will still come for me he will marry me meanwhile he is still in a relationship by the way. He was asking for a date outing which I’m always ignoring i asked what of his babe he said it’s not a crime to go on a friendly date. Once in a while he dirty talk to my posts and tries to start a convo with me .He even invited me for a party in advance that he’s hosting but I didn’t give positive reply. So last week i needed help financially i reached out to him he offered to help me then he started saying he wants to see me that I’m always declining that he’s not trying to use the medium to take advantage that he badly wants to see me then he said his happier with me that he entered a relationship due to loneliness. He said he wants me in his arms that he will be so happy to have me back that i make him happy, I’m his first genuine lover that we can make out but he isn’t going to sex me that he will treat me right and not hurt me again. He said I should trust the process that he wants both of us happiness then i asked him why didn’t he try working things out with me if he wanted me before thinking of someone else he said i pushed him away he thought i was done hmmm lol. I asked him what about his current girl, he said i shouldn’t worry, i should leave him to handle that. She can’t find out i would just watch how this phase leads, he wants to help me in this phase he will make it right this time I should just relax he got me forever. He said anytime he has sex with his girlfriend he remembers me before he cums that he has our sex video he still watches it to cum and he has my picture to pleasure himself that he’s addicted to me. I told him I can’t be in his arms when he has a babe beside i can’t be a sidechick in a relationship i was in before it’s a low standard and that’s shameful. He said can’t he just have a girlfriend and have me in his arms, i told him you can’t love two people he said says who? When we were dating he never cheated on me I’m even shocked he is this way to his new girl. I don’t know if he is just sexually attracted to me alone or he is confused on what he wants or he doesn’t know how to end it with the new girl yet but for sure i can’t settle for such level and don’t wanna hurt myself again. I know what i have been through in the heartbreak, i can’t settle for a side chick or sneaky link in a relationship i was in. Although he gave me the money i asked for since then we have been chatting but just basic things though