I’m a lil freaky. Told this man during sex that he should pull my hair or choke me or spank me, because I’m a fan of a painful pleasure. You guys won’t believe that my man started patting my head and caressing my body saying that such is not a necessary act during sex. Okay I get he’s a sweet guy who respects me and all, but Omo I love being choked and treated with a little disrespect during sex. I love it so much it’s a red flag for any guy who doesn’t do that.