How can I trust my boyfriend back? We dated for 4 years I have access to his phone I used to check his phone but last year i checked his phone and I saw his chat flirting with girls but I know it’s a peer group influence because his friends were not in a relationship they always play around. I tried to break up with him, told him not to waste my time if he’s not serious with me but he keeps begging and doesn’t want to leave me I accepted him back because I love him and I knew he loves me too. This is the person I have introduced to my parents and he has always been there for me from the start he takes care of me a lot, ever since then I stopped checking his phone but I don’t trust him. I don’t know if he has stopped or not and we’re planning to get marry this year and even planning to relocate outside the country