There’s this guy in my neighborhood, I had a slight crush on him then. one thing led to another he took my virginity, he was 32 while I was 16. He claimed he really loved me but I just didn’t see a future with him..I am now 23 and he is 38 and we still link up frequently somehow for sex even though I have a boyfriend I love so much. I have tried everything to stop talking to that guy but it not working. He has a way of manipulating me to bed everytime what do I do? Should I tell my boyfriend this secret? I really want to stop cheating on him