0k so I got out of an abusive relationship like 3 years ago and there was this guy with me through the healing process . As normal we started seeing each other and all . He is very calm , respects me ,loves me a lot and very emotional too but the only problem is he is not working and not ambitious about his dreams or anything . 365 days come and he still sits in the sofa playing video games . I pay for most of our dates and all . I really don’t see a future with him but because he stuck with me during my hard time, I feel obliged to stay with him . Fast forward as fate will have it , I went for a friend’s wedding and her other friend (male) after the event decided to drop me home nothing unusual happened throughout our ride . He barely spoke to me but later got my number from my friend and asked me on a date . We have been on several dates now and he wants to settle with me . Note : He is working , clearly loves the Lord and respects me . He is a true gentleman in all aspects . I broke up with my jobless boyfriend to focus more on this guy now . I hope I’m not a bad person 🤦🏻‍♀️