I’m 34 years old and I don’t have a serious girlfriend and this is not because I don’t have what it takes or not good looking but currently I invested in a business which hasn’t really picked and I always feel I won’t be able to take care of a woman based on the current societal standards. I live in my own house in Lagos but that financial independence I’ve always had is not anymore and it hurts me to see my woman in need and I can’t be of help . Is this even normal ? I’ve meet some ladies recently and broke things off when the demands are getting too much and I know I can’t help . I just feel it’s better for them to meet someone else who can help them.