I’m falling into depression as time goes by. I’m in a relationship where by my boyfriend and i don’t understand each other anymore. We have fights every now and then, its either the negative way he talks or the fact that he wants to be “in charge” according to him. Our relationship and sex life is sour. I have tried to get the vibe back but he keeps pushing me away with the way he talks. I don’t know what to do, coupled with the fact that i need a place to stay in lagos and a job so i can at least earn a little and stop depending on him. Its frustrating, i need help!