My parents have been married for over 34 years and I’ve always watched my dad disrespect and abuse my mum even in public(church or anywhere) . Sometimes he abandons his children (us) and never perform his responsibilities my mum takes over, thank God for her job. All these experiences I’ve witnessed with my parents has affected me and I think it’s the reason why I can’t keep a relationship for long. I’m really mad at my dad because of the pain he inflicted on my mum and for allowing me and my siblings share out of it, sometimes I feel like hurting him, but after all he is a man of God and I don’t want to go to hell.