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My friend opened a bumble account for me in February. Haven’t been active because I find it difficult to be the one texting men. But fast forward to yesterday I (more…)

Dating these days is extremely scary. I usually try my best to be true to my ideals in situations concerning relationships – don’t do whatever I wouldn’t like done to me. But it’s getting exhausting either having men that are talking to 10 girls like it’s speed dating, or finding out (more…)

Sometimes I wonder if karma is real. Do people really regret what they did to a good person. How can a man profess love to me for a year and beg me to date him, only to dump me after 6months for his ex. His same ex that frustrated, gaslighted and (more…)

My ex would always body shame fat babes. Whenever we come across one on the road or at the mall, he doesn’t hesitate to tell me how much fat people disgust him. Imagine my confusion when I caught him (more…)

I didn’t know he was married until we started dating. As soon as I found out I ended things immediately. He told me about his wife, even showed me her socials, like he expected me to stay. I still left. He still begs me and says he misses (more…)

I don’t know what happened to my elder brother, my brother who used to be so harsh when he was single. If you see the way he worships his wife meanwhile she shouts at my brother for every little thing even insults him at times and he will still (more…)

Please stop treating people anyhow thinking they can’t get their lick back. Look at you thinking you ditched me but you don’t know I made you lose million years of labor and millions trying to fix something you didn’t know I destroyed and (more…)

We used to tease my big sis that upon all her noise about true love she picked the richest husband. I have two men on my case currently and yesterday my sis said, “first year I started work my office (more…)

I’m 20 and my boyfriend is 25. We started dating last year November, we’ve had romantic moments together apart from sex because I’m a virgin. We’ve only met 3 times, I haven’t seen him since January. Our relationship has been off and on because of his stinginess. He has only given me #20k since we started dating which (more…)

My brother needs to find another career, he’s just wasting his time and family resources. He recently produced a (more…)

My big brother has kidney failure and he’s about to lose his life, our parents died in 2022 and he has been the one standing and providing for us, now we are about to lose him, he’s just 26. God help us! My uncle who could provide for us towards the completion of the (more…)

My previous rich friend started acting up after I’ve shown him so much love and even borrowed him money to pay his rent, this is the same guy that had spare room but didn’t let me in when I was stranded. This dude would buy food for himself alone (more…)

You started going to church and doing spirikoko, mum and you fought because she said you were taking it too far, you made yourself the victim. She suspected you were (more…)

I’m so ugly, I held the record for the most ugliest girl in secondary school for 6 years. I thought I’ll be fine later in life lol. I have good, expensive, quality wigs but I’m still ugly in them. No man finds me attractive. I’m 24 and I’ve never (more…)