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Some people you call your family are not really family sha. Imagine your own family (blood) wishing you death because you chose your own pathway to life omo. Abi the person you call your mother constantly (more…)

I made out with a male friend of mine last month. No protection but made sure he pulled out. Now my period for this month is a week late and i have been sleeping and spitting too much these days. To think i had a dream where i was pregnant before that meeting. Now i can’t help but be scared if my dream is actually coming to reality. Oh God please, not with this person 🙏 I am running a test today, I pray it’s nothing like that, its just my hormones messing with me in Jesus name 🙏

Planted seeds 2

Yo I forgot to update ya’ll. My period later showed up 🤭 was just my hormones messing with me. Glory to God!

I met this guy last year who was very much well to do but never gives me a penny. Flies first class ✈, nice apartment, buys expensive stuff. But when it comes to me he does nothing for me not even as (more…)

I love you move than anything you can think of, but I don’t have a choice I need to move on. I found someone else but I love you forever

I noticed anytime I was intimate with people I don’t feel anything. I had spoken to my friends concerning this (more…)

I’m so tired for real, life is just annoying. Parents separated when I was 14, had to move to the village to find secondary school, got a job at 16 and (more…)

You people that do long distance relationships, please my babe is ovulating and horny, what do i do.

I met this guy is 2023 and he approached me first saying I was very beautiful blah blah blah, he was way older and we started talking and honestly he asked me to meet up with him, I said no and I used hints to say he was just my friend. Long story short, communication became inconsistent (more…)

I’m gay, my sister was the only one I told because we were the closest of all my siblings but she made my life hell and cuht me off. We haven’t even said “Hi” to each other for 4 years but the other siblings talk to me even though they know my sexuality but my sister who I loved the most just cuht me off. That aside, the issue now is that she’s getting married this January, she didn’t invite me but my brother did and sent me their pre wedding photos and her husband to be is someone that I’ve hooked up with when I was still in Enugu. I don’t even know if I should tell her, my friends said I should mind my business since she didn’t invite me. Will she even believe me or term it that I’m jealous, I’m confused.

Sister’s Fiancé 2

Update: Like most comments said I should tell sister about her DL fiance and i did but all hell broke loose. To my greatest surprise, she didn’t doubt me or say that I’m jealous, I guess there’ve been signs before I told her. She just asked one question “Can you say and defend this in front of him” I said yes. So, she confronted him and he said all sorts, that I’m a devil trying to come between them. I’m jealous, that I’m a liar trying to sabotage their marriage. When I heard that, I booked my flight to enugu and came in front of him, before that I put call to my friends in the community in enugu and they gathered a few evidence, nothing much but was enough to prove that I’m telling the truth. Though none of that was needed because even before I presented the evidence, he said “he used to do it before but he has given his life to christ and he hasn’t done it since they got together” she doesn’t know what to do yet though guests have not been uninvited so I guess she’s still considering the marriage. We haven’t had a conversation so I’m still cut off and after the whole thing played out, I really got to reflect if i told her because I care about her or because I was so mad at her. I love my sister so much and I’m still hurt about how easily she cut me off.

It is highly unreasonable for you not to want to do things your mother did like cook and clean and expect the man to still provide. Conventionally, a man (more…)

My babe is sounding very sweet tonight, she says she misses me and is asking questions I’m not used to hearing from her. Communication hasn’t been great. I love her, but a lot has happened, and I (more…)

I traveled to a state where my friend is based to see my man and I told her. This girl told me to bring wig and make up for her incase I decide to hang out with my man, his friends and herself, which I did. Time to go out when I arrived, I did (more…)

I don’t understand people that stay in domestic violence situations till it leads to their deaths, I mean if you can’t fight back, leave. I believe these men know their victims, and go for weak and vulnerable women. The last two guys that tried that rubbish with me learnt their (more…)

I quit my job this year without another one in sight but when my colleagues asked if i had gotten a new job, i lied and said yes. Guess what, the job i lied about (more…)