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I bought a bed for $1200 and since then I can’t be comfortable on any other bed

That’s what a girl told me after i asked her to come spend sometime with me, she’s got a man but she’s slept over at my place a couple times but i didn’t pressure her for sex, she’s literally used to streak me her man when he was around everyday for a whole week everywhere they went. I did a lot for her but intentionally didn’t reach out to her on her birthday 😂 lied to (more…)

Would i sound crazy if I say i miss my ex, or if i say it’s been two years but i still miss him like crazy everyday. I wanna reach out so bad but two years is a long time for someone not have moved on. Like I literally haven’t dated or even (more…)

This girl knows i want her and i have made my intentions clear, the thing with me is that i know how to deal with rejection from women, and i don’t pressure them too much to get what i want, i feel you will make it easy for me if it’s meant to happen. She was at my place one day we (more…)

I lost 32kg & now weigh 75kg. I’ve never liked my body & now worse, no amount of weight lifting can reduce the flabby skin, i look ugly when i smile. Peeps says i look sick/old.worked out over 15months. I met a guy, he motivated me to work out, I appreciate it, he works out but a different gym. Feel he doesn’t (more…)

I started taking my finances a little seriously about a year ago and I am super-impressed by my growth. While my income has not increased significantly, I have been able to amass over 3 million naira spread over mutual funds, emergency fund, S&P 500, dollar savings, and more. I am just pleased that I started this (more…)

I am a 27-year-old male and I have never been in a relationship. The closest thing to a relationship that I’ve had were situationships or random flings. The thing now is I don’t even know if I want a relationship. I am somewhat (more…)

I got diagnosed with schizophrenia 2020/2021 and it’s been quite a ride. There is a content creator I follow on TikTok who also has schizophrenia and he’s so outspoken that it encourages me. I know that many people have prejudice against (more…)

I told my boss I wanted to resign and he started singing my praises and talking about grand plans the company had for me. He even said he wanted to match my (more…)

I quit smoking for 2 hours then I realized I can’t breathe without it

I find myself living among girls for the first time and I feel so depressed. I don’t know if it’s low self esteem but I suffer so much from family dynamics, having brothers that are capable but don’t care enough to help me. Seeing my roommate enjoy her brothers so much makes me feel (more…)

I’m sitting here at work looking for the last kobo I can get to solve rent and family issues that are waiting and pending while I have colleagues ordering phones and stuff. I know i will get to that point one day but I really admire people who have (more…)

Next year I really want to find love. It’s crazy how now that I’m ready to find love I’m not getting chyked by people I actually want

Last year the guy I loved told me he had a crush on my friend one time. Omo it broke me 💔, even though he told me multiple times he was very sorry, it was a while ago and he doesn’t like her anymore but still everytime I think about it I feel he’d (more…)