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I lost 32kg & now weigh 75kg. I’ve never liked my body & now worse, no amount of weight lifting can reduce the flabby skin, i look ugly when i smile. Peeps says i look sick/old.worked out over 15months. I met a guy, he motivated me to work out, I appreciate it, he works out but a different gym. Feel he doesn’t (more…)

I started taking my finances a little seriously about a year ago and I am super-impressed by my growth. While my income has not increased significantly, I have been able to amass over 3 million naira spread over mutual funds, emergency fund, S&P 500, dollar savings, and more. I am just pleased that I started this (more…)

I am a 27-year-old male and I have never been in a relationship. The closest thing to a relationship that I’ve had were situationships or random flings. The thing now is I don’t even know if I want a relationship. I am somewhat (more…)

I got diagnosed with schizophrenia 2020/2021 and it’s been quite a ride. There is a content creator I follow on TikTok who also has schizophrenia and he’s so outspoken that it encourages me. I know that many people have prejudice against (more…)

I told my boss I wanted to resign and he started singing my praises and talking about grand plans the company had for me. He even said he wanted to match my (more…)

I quit smoking for 2 hours then I realized I can’t breathe without it

I find myself living among girls for the first time and I feel so depressed. I don’t know if it’s low self esteem but I suffer so much from family dynamics, having brothers that are capable but don’t care enough to help me. Seeing my roommate enjoy her brothers so much makes me feel (more…)

I’m sitting here at work looking for the last kobo I can get to solve rent and family issues that are waiting and pending while I have colleagues ordering phones and stuff. I know i will get to that point one day but I really admire people who have (more…)

Next year I really want to find love. It’s crazy how now that I’m ready to find love I’m not getting chyked by people I actually want

Last year the guy I loved told me he had a crush on my friend one time. Omo it broke me 💔, even though he told me multiple times he was very sorry, it was a while ago and he doesn’t like her anymore but still everytime I think about it I feel he’d (more…)

Konji has turned me into a kreep, my step sister edges me up, she dresses for that purpose and i know that she knows how i look at her. I’m 2 years older than her, and just recently i took pictures of her (more…)

My ex of almost 3 years, broke up with me almost a month ago, he said he needed time for himself. I mean we’ve been talking, he’s been sending me money and all, he didn’t do that when we were together because he didn’t have. Posting things like she is (more…)

My girlfriend and I had issues, and I decided to end the relationship. None of the problems were my fault. One major issue was that she took a loan, couldn’t repay it, and her ex ended up clearing it. She insisted the loan company called her (more…)

Lover boy like me don turn bad person because of funds, lol. No be say I no invest ooo, na bad investment do all this things. I’ll focus on getting the bag but make no woman come tomorrow to call me (more…)