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All my life I’ve been loyal, I’ve never cheated on any man I dated, never double dated. Just loyal, and that got me nothing but big hurt and heartbreak, it’s been a roller coaster of tears, now (more…)

My shop’s landlord sold the shop and the new person wanted to started using his shop ASAP. This is just 3 months after I renewed my rent. I had less than a week to leave the shop. The new spaces I see are like 150% of my current rent. An old “friend” called me randomly and (more…)

I feel i have a spiritual husband that keeps tormenting my life. How do i break this curse/ bond with him. I’m ready for marriage and he’s blocking my way 😭. I’m 26 by the way

I need my own person, i’m so tired, i’ve seen a little bit of what I want in different people but it’s not (more…)

My husband who is my bestie by the way, we’ve had a really beautiful marriage for 6 years. Got married when I was 20 and he was 24 so he is really really my partner, no head and tail for our marriage and it’s been really beautiful. But it’s like internet alpha male talk has (more…)

Last week, I got cleared after my bro’s best friend’s wife accused me of rape. Met her at my bro’s wedding, she was hot, got her number, not knowing she was married. Bro warned me off when I (more…)

I had sex with this babe that I really like so much and even though I like the experience, it took me several days to heal from the itchy sweet (more…)

I turned a year older today and I feel so indifferent. Like, I can’t remember a time I was actually excited about my birthday. I’ve always been indifferent about it. I guess it’s because (more…)

I have sex with married women just to satisfy them. They pay better than single older women. I don’t do more than 55 tho. I see comments how people judge these women. The men sometimes are at fault 95% of the time. Some when their wife gives birth they just lose interest on (more…)

I’m a pretty girl norms and been in a couple of relationships but today is the first day in my life I’ll be admitting I’m at fault genuinely in a relationship. I have so much pride which i (more…)

I know everything about entitlement mentality and I can promise you all that I am not. But it is so painful when someone who calls himself your ‘friend’ stays splashing money on strangers to impress them, yet looks the other way (more…)

When I first moved to Lagos, my neighbor mentioned joining tinder to meet people. I joined innocently and was lucky to meet a guy, who happens to be the only person I met off the app. We never crossed platonic lines, yet this guy is (more…)

June 10, I’ll be 29. I was financially stable before, now I’m down facing a lot of life challenges. I just wish I found someone out there to help me so I can bounce back as a guy. I’m totally tired 😓

I moved to the Uk one month ago. I’ve not gotten a job, I came for my masters. I own a clothing brand in Nigeria. The little sales I’ve made in a month na him dey sustain me. Two people have asked me to borrow them money since (more…)