My ex would have died for me. And I left him for a husband who doesn’t give a fuck about me

There’s this vicious cycle: you post on connotare- pray they post it- when they post it- fear go dey catch you to open the advice because e fit go any side. Connotare people no too dey okay 😂😂

I don’t know why it seems like these days I have to search for Connotare before I see their posts. Maybe it’s the algorithm or something. Or do I have to interact more because my interactions have (more…)

My ex had no problem with us fucking but she never cooked at my place even when she was with me for almost 2 weeks. She said if she cooked for me it will make (more…)

I just found out my husband has a secret child and I don’t even know how to react. We’ve been married for 5 years now and never for once did my husband ever show a sign of cheating talk more having a child outside our marriage. My husband has 3 phones, he uses two for his business, the (more…)

Today I decided I’ll never lend my friend money again. Every time I do, I have to chase her before she pays me back. What annoys me most is she’ll even (more…)

Maybe if I had loved myself more, i wouldn’t have settled for less and get used.

I’m going to be 26 in about a month. I have this principle that if i have to date you then we have to end up together at the end of the day, i can’t be dating someone i don’t truly love. In summary, i don’t date for fun and i have never slept (more…)

I involved God in my life, now everything is upside down. Decided to be real and honest and work hard and pray. Now nothing seems to be working for me. I was way better than I was before I went back to (more…)

It just occured to me now that if I was to have a wedding this year, I don’t have guys I can invite as grooms men. Honestly, I don’t even know enough people I (more…)

So about 3-4 years ago there was this babe I was having an affair with, anytime we fight she’d always beg me with nudes and I’d be doing shakara and give description of my preference. Fast forward to days ago, i missed the control I had over (more…)

I stopped wanking earlier this year so whenever I feel aroused I’ll just smoke and that has helped for 2 months I guess. Today I was out of weed, called my (more…)

I have a sex videos of my boyfriend and a girl on my phone. He’s aware that I have it and I’m not even mad when I saw the videos because we haven’t met when he (more…)

I am thinking of opening a breastfeeding cafe in Lagos (sin city) for women that like their breasts suckled in a non sexual way and men that like to do it too. I realized not all men like that whole “just suck till you fall asleep” kind of sucking; they feel it must always lead to sex. No! Just suck like a good baby boy, is that too much to ask for. Sorry na this man dey vex me; talk about “when I am not a 6month old” mtcheww