I had a 2 months talking stage and it’s seemed good, we both had similar goals, he’s career focused and all but I noticed he’s not kind. I had flood issues that led to home displacement and lost my job the very next day, so I tried to use my saving to get a new place while paying for a hotel for almost a week, I was financially exhausted and my phone got bad too the next week and I was telling him about it, talking about oh I can’t do anything for you it’s just talking stage, just talking stage and you wanna know where I am all the time, you wanna do night calls and take me for lunch with your friends. I just told him I’m no more interested. I’m not entitled but my future boyfriend won’t watch me struggle and not help, I won’t watch someone I care about struggle and not help.