I sent a screenshot of a guy telling me he wanted to have sex with me and I don’t know this guy from anywhere. I just told my boyfriend about how the guy disrespected me, I had already blocked the guy but my boyfriend started asking me what video I had posted and what was I wearing in it, I told him that what I was wearing shouldn’t matter in this situation because I was fully clothed and he was pretending like he didn’t see the post. That led to a discussion where I jokingly told him he seemed like the kind of person who would hear a woman had been raped and ask “But what was she wearing” His response was that what a woman wears matters too if you don’t want to be sexually harassed dress decently. I understand that revealing clothes might attract attention but does that mean the clothes have anything to do with a person choosing to sexually assault you. Women who dress modestly get raped, women who dress revealingly get raped too but why was he so focused on the dressing. I’ve been feeling really uncomfortable with my boyfriend’s statement and statically women that have been through that were not dressed indecently