Is being a girl introvert such a crime. In 9ja, I happily lived alone, great job, bills paid, no drama, yet my neighbor (married man) literally quarrelled me to be “coming out”. Now I’ve relocated abroad, live in a shared apartment with a couple, and the wife wants to create drama where there is none. Just yesterday, she reported me that I left my cooking because she said she wanted to cook. But in my head, I’m just creating space for you, the kitchen isn’t big, I can always cook at anytime & I listen to music while I cook. She also gets mad that I love being in my room alot. Damn, I miss living alone.