My boss is a big man in the Navy, today we were having a conversation and I casually mentioned how he doesn’t care about me as much. This man just told me plainly that he doesn’t just know how to care for a person without going extreme and if he wants to show me that side of him, I would not want to get married to another man and even if I get married, I would never forget how good he treated me and I would not be able to move on so if I know what’s best for me, I should take him as he is and not ask for more. A part of me wants to run away but another part wants to explore being treated well. He’s married by the way.