I have an issue, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. I went to the club few weeks ago and I met someone there, he was really nice to me and said he wanted to see me after that day and take me out on a date, I immediately told him I had a boyfriend and that was even why I didn’t dance with any guy at the club, he asked if I am in love with my boyfriend and I said no because I genuinely am not yet. We went on a double date and because it was really late I slept over at his place. He left his bedroom for me and slept in the living room and was such a gentleman, in the morning he tried to kiss me and I told him no because that would be cheating. The problem now is I like him, he’s closer in age to me that my boyfriend, he likes dates like me while I literally have to beg my boyfriend to take me on a date. I feel like I’ve already crossed the line by going out with him and going to spend the night at his place, he still wants to see me and says it’s fair game since I’m not in love yet. He’s coming to the city I’m in, he wants to see me again, he promised we’d still spend time together and all of that. I feel like the reason I’m tempted is because my boyfriend is not everything I want him to be and when I bring up issues that need addressing he’s dismissive of them and makes them a joke, this other guy stopped texting me for a while and said it’s because he doesn’t want to get his hopes up considering my situation. I’m not a cheater so I’m probably going to have to drop someone. I don’t know if I should go out with him again.