I’m 22 and I lost my virginity a few months ago, I wasn’t keeping it for my husband or anything like that but I just wanted to be ready and I was when I lost it, it was a nice experience although I bled a lot and felt a bit of pain but my partner was very supportive and kind so my first experience was pleasant the thing now is that my mom has been talking about virginity a lot and how I should keep it for my husband and how she has bragged to all her friends that I’m a virgin and how she would be really upset if I’m not. I literally had to swear that I am. I’m an adult now and whatever I do with my body is my business