Love at dawn

I’m a 25 years old lady, I’ve been dating this guy for 6 years now together for 6 years. Last year, I gave my life to Christ and since then till now there has been unending issues over sex. I told him we have to hold on sex till marriage since we are plan on doing that by December but he is finding it very hard to comply to celibacy. The issue for me is that when there’s intercourse I cannot pray no matter how hard I try, whenever I’m not with him I become very prayerful and discerning, but when I’m around him it’s not so, he says intimacy is very vital for him to stay emotionally connected. I agree with him but I told him I can only do that in marriage since it’s looking like a hindrance in my prayer life. We’ve had several fight around this and it is almost like the marriage we are planning for isn’t looking very promising. I’ve tried distancing, seeing each other outdoors, he doesn’t comply with any. We stay in the same city, so each time I come to see him he must talk and coerce me into having sex. What do I do at this point🫠

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