They will micro manage you and then get angry when you stop completely. First, it’s my mum then this ex I could never cook as well as my mother personal preference instead of correcting just insults and curses until I stopped cooking completely at her house. Same pattern in the relationship too with food not that my cooking is terrible but same micromanagement, don’t touch this, don’t use that, you are using too much onion etc. okay then do it yourself suddenly I’m unsupportive and weaponizing incompetence