I’ve been celibate for over a year now and I didn’t even know it was possible. Lost sexual attraction to my ex fiancé last year and we agreed to go celibate. Six months in I realized I really don’t want to spend the rest of my life conjuring sexual attraction and I called off the engagement. Thought that by now, I’ll be having sexual attraction for someone new but no. Not even for my favorite situationship. I like it though, I get horny once in a while but I like the discipline. I just need to apply the same resistance to smoking and my shadow work will be complete.