I’m 25 and my girlfriend is 19. Our relationship has just been off and on since we started dating last year November. I’ve never given her gifts before but I’ve taken her out like 3 times and she has also taken me out on a date once. I’ve given her #20k and #5k once. We’ve only met 5 times because I wasn’t around for sometime. After we last saw January this year, we met again around August. I found out that she was intimate with a young married woman, she said she did that because i wasn’t treating her well. But this girl has never had sex with me because she’s a virgin and she always complains of pain anytime i finger her. I feel she’s purposely doing this because I haven’t spoilt her enough with gifts. We’re always having issues, i don’t think i can forgive her. I don’t even know if i love her.