My mum came to tell me about how tough the married man’s wife she is dating is. A young girl came to their house and she was indecently dressed, the woman came home and started cussing the man out. My mother boldly said she is so wrong. In my mind, if you started speaking up early against nonsense, my father wouldn’t have left after traumatizing the hell out of you. At the end of the day, pickmeism would always destroy you.