I’ve noticed anytime i am single i am always financially stable but soon as I want to get in a relationship with a man they’re most likely in their dark phase but soon as the relationship kick start they begin to get financially stable while I start to get unstable and they start to give me change like I am depending on them. I didn’t think much of these patterns until my current one, like he had nothing when we started and it wasn’t an issue because I had but now he’s the one flourishing and i am just there.