I just remembered when I was dating this guy, he was 30 then and I was 21/22. I just finished school, job haunting at the moment so I can pay my bills, I was broke family was broke too, I had my lodge but I liked spending time with him. Mind you from the little I got from uncle I will use it to cook etc for this guy, one day he got back pissed that I was still wearing same cloth he saw me on before he left, I told him I showered I just repeated it, mind you we’ve dated for 4+years then, he called my sis to complain that I don’t do anything I’m supposed to get a job etc. Omo my sis called me asked if I was okay and asked me to come back to my lodge. When I got home she told me everything I cried sha because I was trying I didn’t even like myself that way. Fast forward, I got a waiting job at a restaurant I got good tips and was all about the work, this same man couldn’t take it he became extremely insecure doing crazy stuff. Glad we’re no longer together, now I see how much advantage he took of me.💔