Thought I stood a chance with this man. I mean the dates, the relationship up’s and downs and he made it clear he wants to get married before mid November this year. He then tells me to source for rings so he can send me the money for me to buy it and deliver to him so when he is ready he will propose. His excuses for not wanting to it himself is because he is a busy man and he doesn’t know which ring I’ll like so it’s best for me to get it myself . We quarreled because of that and everyone around me sees nothing wrong with his actions saying I’m 29 and time is going for me! So I should just ignore red flags because of fear of late marriage