Sex with my girlfriend is not so good, I do not know why it just doesn’t work out, I dont cum nearly as much as I do with my side chick. I love my girlfriend so much but I don’t love my side chick despite the great sex. And my side chick is also in a relationship. I have tried everything to improve me and my girlfriends sex life but it just doesn’t work out, she doesn’t put in as much effort into it and she can’t take it as much as my side chick can. I keep pretending when I’m with her but the truth is it’s not great at all. She never wants to try anything different or rough sex, it’s always just tame. I put distance between me and my side chick this whole year because I want to be loyal to my girl but it’s hard and I really need good sex. I’m thinking maybe if I stop pretending it will push her to put in more effort but I do not want to hurt her feelings