My man wants to gift me a #150k bouquet, but i want the #200k package and he said he cant afford it before girl friend’s day and i really want that. Now he’s saying i lend him #50k and he’d refund me. I don’t know if this is the same as gifting myself because i feel so. I know he’ll refund though and add a little extra, i just dont know if it’s cool to lend him cash to add up.