I can’t believe my ex remembered my birthday, I mean we didn’t really end on good terms (that was on him and not me) and at some point he has been trying to win me back but later on, his words were not matching his actions (I don’t need another inconstant variable in my life right now) so we just stopped talking but the fact that he texted to wish me was surprising. I do miss him and wished we’d get back together but we’re not matching each other’s energy at the moment so it’s best to leave it as it is.