There’s this lady I met at the gym, very beautiful and has a nice body. We started talking and got really close, she was coming to my place and we were having fun. 3 months into the relationship she told me she had kids, not one but 3. I wanted to leave that I can’t date a woman with kids, she kept pleading that she really loves me and no man has ever treated her so well. I got really emotional and not gonna lie I caught feelings already and i really liked her but the problem now is i really don’t want to continue the relationship because I can’t marry her and each time I bring it up she cries up a storm begging and pleading with me not to leave her. She’s kind and everything but I just can’t deal with all that. I turn 30 next year and I want a single lady with no kids, I feel like I deserve that. I would’ve had a child a long time ago myself but I didn’t, I was so careful so why will I settle for someone with kids. I truly don’t understand it she says there’s nothing wrong with it but do I really deserve that. I’ve been too disciplined to end up like that