My father was very abusive to my mother growing up, beating here and there.There was a time he used an iron keyholder to hit her till blood start coming out from her head. Always talked about leaving her to marry another woman. Financially my mum was more of the breadwinner, she hawked to make ends meet. I just turned 30 and she is always pressuring me to get married, comparing me with every of my friends that are married, letting me know about the old women she knew that didn’t get married and how their life is miserable. I’m trying to move to a new city to look for a job and start a new life. With all her comparisim I have found myself in crazy relationships because I just want to get married. Thank God those guys don’t even like me enough to take me serious let alone wife me because I would have been miserable. I really want to get married but I can wait till I see someone good for me in all ramifications.