I have been dating this older man for 6months, he is not married, we cohabited for 5months. Unfortunately, we had to move cities, suddenly he changed, very inconsistent, promise and fail here and there. The last time I called him he said he was going to call me back but he never did, 2 weeks have passed. I tried calling him this week but he didn’t answer nor returned my calls. One mind is telling me that I messed up that I should have been calling him even when he doesn’t call. I really need his financial support, I think I’m the one that lost. My self respect is fighting with my financial problem, this man once told his ex that I’m forcing myself on him.