In April, I needed some money urgently, and I reached out to one of my cousins to lend me some money. I told him the purpose and how urgent it is. He asked me to send my account details. After a few hours I didn’t see anything so I tried calling him, he didn’t answer. He hasn’t answered my calls or reply my messages since then. It pained me o because he could have said No and we will still be good. I even tried calling him to let him know I don’t hold it against him. His actions of not answering my calls and messages hurt me more than him not delivering on his promise did.